BIG things this week

This is the BIG Boy steam engine as it came through St. Louis on its nationwide tour. I wish I could say I took this photo but, no, it was taken by a fellow civic orchestra cellist at the end of her street. Had I known she lived so close to the track it was traveling on, I would have invited myself to her place. Instead, I went to Kirkwood where the Amtrak station is and I found a good, shady viewing spot but with not nearly as lovely a backdrop. 

We had originally planned to join the Southerlands Sunday afternoon at Union Station when it was parked there but our day was just too busy and we bowed out. Plus, I really wanted to see the Big Boy on the move. Southerlands did go to Union Station only to learn that the exhibit had closed fifteen minutes earlier due to heat! So, they also found a track to watch it steam by on Monday but it was out in Pacific and too far for me since I had to fit my viewing in between driving Afghan women to and from the Science Center.  

Below are Mackenzie and Cayden whose last day of string lessons was on Tuesday. They gave me a very BIG gift bag full of lovely thank you gifts.

Thursday, Steve, Noah and I took a photo of ourselves in front of this BIG chess piece located outside the World Chess Hall of Fame in the Central West End. The museum was free and it is in a beautifully restored building. It was also a BIG disappointment to me since I don't play chess and I don't know the world of chess so I was incredibly bored. The three levels of displays, well laid out, were useless for me. Oh, well, it was an excuse to spend time with Noah (he checks into his dorm at Missouri S & T on August 15th!!!) and to take him to ice cream afterwards.

Friday morning, we headed east to spend the weekend with Julina and Alex. Along the way, we made a small detour to Monticello, Illinois to visit with long time friend, Beth Seibert, and to take her to lunch. 

We arrived in Greenwood around 7:30 that evening. The next morning, my BIG project for the weekend was to pull weeds from the front flower beds. I filled a rolling cart full of yard debris. Temperatures were unseasonably pleasant for the end of July and it made yard work very pleasant.

Steve and I attended the temple at noon and the rest of the day was quite chill. Julina had us help her make an assortment of summer salads (chicken, tuna, egg, ham) and that was our Saturday supper and Sunday lunch. Delicious! Julina has a friend, Amanda, in the ward who plays violin (she has a master's degree in performance) and every time we come to Indiana, Amanda and I say we should play something for church. And, so, on Sunday, we did. It was a lovely arrangement of Come, Come Ye Saints for violin, cello and piano.  Later that day, Steve and I left at 6:00 to drive back to St. Louis. The time difference between the eastern and central time zones is always in our favor when we drive west and we got home at about 9:30. Construction tied us up a bit or it would have been a little earlier.

I was able to get a BIG load off my back on Tuesday when I finally re-figured out how to use Musescore to do some music transcribing that I have wanted to do for over a month.  And, that wraps up our week. Aside from an episode of Star Trek Discovery, Steve and I didn't watch a movie together. While in Greenwood, Julina shared their password to BritBox and, over three days, I binged watched The Other Bennet Sister. It was delightful!  

Many social interactions this week

Behold my Monday morning home repair project. It ain't pretty but we have tried to get two different handy-men to fix the crumbling front porch stair for several months with no luck.  So I just took some leftover Quikcrete from the bird feeder pole installation about two years ago and fixed it myself! And, hopefully, now we won't have a lawsuit on our hands because someone fell due to a breaking up step.  Monday afternoon, I went over to the newly purchased home of Tracie and Ryan to help clean out all the stuff left by the previous owner who was a HOARDER! Whooeee, I have never seen so many unopened bags of bedspreads, sheets, pillowcases, comforters. Plus she had stacks and stacks of newspapers dating back to the 1980's! The home is a little brick bungalow that looks like it was built around the mid-twentieth century. It has great bones: hardwood floors, a full basement, a detached garage with a small fenced back yard (oh, how I envy a small fenced yard!). Tracie and Ryan had a huge rented dumpster in front on the street that was almost full and they were creating a gigantic pile of things to donate to a thrift store in the living room. Her mom, my friend Mary Bell, and step dad and Judy and Herb Pyne from the ward were also there pitching in (and pitching out).

Tuesday I met Julia for lunch at Culver's. She's a friend who I hadn't seen in 16 years. She and I studied music education at MU back in the day. She is Elise's age, she teaches middle school strings in the Rockwood school district and, unbelievably, she  is going to retire in four years!!! NOW I feel super old! It was so good to catch up. 

Tuesday evening, Steve and I (and Sally) joined Beckie at her place again to watch The Two Towers.

Wednesday had a carefully orchestrated morning because I sort of over-booked myself. I had committed to drive Afghan women to the nearby Afghan Community Center for a Summer Speaker's Series event, I also had music lessons scheduled with Maria and Ben, AND I had scheduled a birthday luncheon at the house with the group of ladies (Mary, Tracie, Judy and Karen) who gather to celebrate each other's birthdays throughout the year! That was a lot of things to make happen and, happily, everything went quite smoothly.  The luncheon was potluck, which helped.  After a well deserved nap, I helped Steve fix the handle to the recliner before Jeopardy started. That evening, we watched another episode of Star Trek Discovery. I would watch the show every day but I am using restraint and we do one episode per week on Wednesday evenings.

Thursday afternoon, Steve took Beckie to her podiatrist appointment and here is what her foot looks like unwrapped...

And, she got an update: She will continue with the PICC line another five weeks and will have to be off her left foot the whole time. Then, the spacer and pins will be removed (see last week's blog post) and she will go on oral antibiotics for six MONTHS. Then, she will get a bone graft and will have to be off her feet for eight more weeks. She has purchased an IWalk which, along with a walker and a knee walker, helps her get around.

 

You see Steven in that photo, too. Well, he came into town Thursday evening to attend the St. Louis City soccer game with Joe, Noah and Quinn. He stayed with us that night and Friday morning, he and Beckie joined us at our bank to add him to our safety deposit box contract, giving him permission to access it. (He has recently been made the executor of our estate)

Thursday afternoon, I went back to Tracie and Ryan's to help paint. UGH! I really do NOT like to paint, especially after I painted the entire house on Parker back in 2020. And, it is just getting too hard on my body to do all that bending and climbing. But, they needed the bedroom to be painted so I donned my painting clothes and went over.  Happily, Mary and her husband Wally were there and, between the three of us, we got the trimming done. Ryan was going to do the roller when he got home from work that evening. 

After the bank Friday morning and dropping Beckie back at her apartment, Steve and I attended the temple. We got gasoline at Costco ($3.49 per gallon) and made a quick stop at the larger Walmart to get things that our Walmart doesn't carry before going home to nap. That evening, we watched Super 8 (released in 2011). Steve had never seen it. Wow, that train crash scene was incredible!

Saturday, I had another luncheon - this time it was to introduce Tabitha, the blind woman I picked up from the airport a few weeks back, and Brenda, a friend from church. Both women play the harp and I thought they should get to know each other. Not only do they have that in common but they discovered many other aspects that they shared in common. It was a nice lunch. I made a delicious new recipe using yellow squash since I have been picking tons from my garden (thanks to Seven pesticide which is keeping the squash bugs at bay). I also made a coleslaw from a cabbage that Judy (Wednesday luncheon) brought from her husband's garden. I had leftover 3-bean salad from last Sunday's meal and I made a marinated carrot salad that I had been craving. Brenda brought deviled eggs and I had some gluten-free lemon bars in the freezer. It was a yummy lunch! I had a cello student in the afternoon, we drove Joey to work (his mom finally got a car but it is currently not working) and then we went back to Beckie's (Sally, too) for the final LOTR movie, Return of the King. 

Today, we are feeding the sister missionaries and then the bishop and his wife and their two little kids are coming over for brownies and ice cream because I want to hear all about Trek. They were a "ma and pa" for the activity. LOTS of social interactions this past week. 

Busy, busy

Beckie is home from the hospital! She went back into surgery on Monday to have her wound debrided AND to have a block inserted to hold a place for an eventual bone graft.  Below is the inside and the outside view...

She was not discharged until Wednesday because she had to have a PIC line inserted so she can administer IV antibiotics to herself for six weeks. Plus, she can put absolutely NO weight on her left foot during that time. At the end of six weeks, she will have surgery for the bone graft and then another 8 weeks of no weight on the foot! She is still working out how her life is going to play out these next 14 weeks.

I saw my cardiologist on Monday afternoon. The metoprolol to control the palpitations is also supposed take the place of my blood pressure medicine only it is not doing a great job. So, after a week of taking my blood pressure at a specific time of day, I have sent the numbers to the doctor and see what he prescribes.  I saw a podiatrist on Tuesday and, going forward, I will go back every 10 weeks to have my gnarly toenails trimmed by him. It is just too hard to bend over nowadays and, with my completely numb feet (thanks autoimmune disease), it is too risky to keep doing it myself.  Steve saw his dermatologist on Wednesday and there were no skin cancers to freeze off - hooray. Our Kia Soul saw the mechanic for an oil change Thursday and it had no other issues. SO, we are ALL good to go....

Throughout the week, I collected, washed, ironed and prepared twenty-four tea towels for a Friday delivery to the Missouri History Museum. Whew! That was a big project that should go easier now that I've done it once. 

Wednesday morning, I awakened at 4:15 to be out the door by 4:45 to arrive at the stake center by 5:15 and set up for the grab-and-go breakfast for all the youth and leaders participating in trek. You can see the two tables full of drink boxes, fruit, granola bars, pop-tarts and cheese sticks. Judy, Carol, and Mary (identified left to right) all helped me.

There were over 135 youth and adults going on this four-day trek through the large piece of property (many acres) near Rosebud, Missouri. They were encouraged to dress in authentic pioneer garb. They were divided into "families" with a "ma and a pa" and about 8 "children". All had their own lidded five-gallon bucket to keep what they would need for the journey and they were hauled in their family handcart along with a Dutch oven and other cooking supplies. Each family slept under a huge tarp stretched over them and a huge tarp spread underneath. The following photos show the group at the church and at the Rosebud farm. There is one photo of our stake president marching while playing his harmonica.

Judy and Mary went home after the three school busses full of trekkers pulled away from the church at 6:30 but Carol and I wanted to see them actually embark with their handcarts so we drove the hour and twenty minutes down to Rosebud and stayed an hour or so to wave them on their way. 

Steve and I went to Beckie's Friday night and watched The Fellowship of the Ring (extended version). Earlier in the week, we watched The Iron Giant that Elise loaned to us. And, of course, we watched another episode of Star Trek Discovery Wednesday night.

Saturday afternoon, Steve and I drove to Columbia to take Elise to dinner to celebrate her birthday. We ate at The Heidelberg, a long-time Columbia eatery next to campus. We enjoyed ice cream at Sparky's afterwards. And, then, we drove back home later that night. Sally came along and stayed in her portable kennel at Elise's apartment while we were at dinner. She is such a good traveler. She also came with us to watch the movie at Beckie's. 

We (and those on trek) got quite a bit of rain throughout the week. It has been so nice to not have to haul a hose and sprinkler around. I will get to do THAT this coming week, though. (darn it!)

 

A week to remember

We kicked off the week with a celebration of Emily's birthday last Sunday evening. Her actual birthday was on Saturday, the 27th, but it was Family Day at Missouri S&T so that is where they spent the day. It was nice to enjoy some time with the Southerlands.

Monday morning, I picked up Beckie to take her to Missouri Baptist Hospital for some outpatient surgery on her foot.  The surgery seemed simple enough - elongate her Achilles tendon to take pressure off the bone at the ball of the foot and to take off a growth on the bottom of her foot. Unfortunately, when the surgeon opened up, it was pretty bad (the infection was now in the bone AND she had an abscess as well) and she had to shave off some bone on her big toe. It was decided that Beckie needed to stay in the hospital for a week (again) on IV antibiotics! This infection that she has been fighting since last fall, that caused her first week-long hospital stay in January, and that has required her to wear a special foot boot and to go to wound care and infectious disease and podiatrist doctors on a weekly basis ever since is STILL a problem. It is pretty discouraging.  We have been up at the hospital almost every day all week while still carrying on our regular activities.  

Steve drove a church friend to his colonoscopy Tuesday morning. I taught a lesson and worked on finances that day. We saw Beckie that night on our way to the temple (the hospital and the temple are literally two miles apart). Steve gave her a Priesthood blessing.  We saw her again Wednesday evening on our way to O'Fallon, MO to assist in a Melchizedek priesthood ordination. This is a good story....

Eighteen years ago, Steve was the bishop and he helped give a name (Cooper Bruce Wayne) and a blessing to baby boy who was born to a less active young woman named Rachel. A year or so later, he performed a marriage ceremony for Rachel to her husband (not Cooper's dad, by the way). She was working as the manager of a large apartment complex that was built around a nine-hole golf course and the wedding was held on the 4th hole. Rachel stayed in the ward for a few years but, eventually, she moved away and we lost track of her. Fast forward to spring 2025 after the performance of the Lamb of God, which I played in. Rachel had gotten her life together and had met and married a good member of the Church and she attended the program. She saw me, recognized me and Steve, and caught us up on her life. She now lives in O'Fallon, MO. Last fall, I saw her as a temple worker and she mentioned how cool it would be if Steve could help ordain Cooper to the Melchizedek priesthood when he turned 18 in the summer of 2026 (kind of a full-circle thing) so I gave her my cell phone number. Then, Tuesday night, when Steve and I went to the temple, there she was at the recommend desk and she asked "what are you doing tomorrow night? Cooper is being ordained and it would be great if you could come". So, that is what we did. Plus, it gave us a chance to see Beckie again since we were driving by the hospital anyway. 

Thursday we did NOT go to see Beckie - we had shopping to do and English class to drive for. Friday morning, Steve dropped me off at the hospital on his way to his second temple visit of the week. I hung out with Beckie for about an hour and a half. Her podiatrist/surgeon had been to see her just before I arrived and told Beckie that more bone needs to be removed on Monday morning. We are not sure how much or what will happen after that. Beckie was supposed to go home Tuesday but now we are not sure....

Saturday was our nation's 250th birthday! And it started out HOT! (the whole week was HOT) What a day to mow the back lawn but that is what I did. Ugh! I finished in time to shower before we attended a ward BBQ at 11:00. Steven drove into town to join us and afterwards, he spent the afternoon with Beckie up at the hospital. Tamara is out of town with her family so Biscuit came along and Steve and I got to dog-sit him. He is a good dog but Sally HATES him! It is a good thing she only has about three teeth or we would have had a problem. Sweet Biscuit wanted to be friends but Sally would have none of it. That afternoon, a front blew in with lots of rain and cooler temperatures so that by fireworks time, it was quite pleasant. We didn't go to any fireworks displays but we didn't need to. Neighbors all around us had their own illegal fireworks show that would rival any civic display! I just sat out on my front lawn and watched fireworks all around me in lovely, coolish temperatures. Happily, Sally is not freaked out by the noise, which was good since there was a LOT of noise all the way up to 11:00 pm. Steven was back in Columbia by then but Biscuit also seems to be oblivious to the noise (hooray!)  Biscuit was a really good dog around the kids at the ward BBQ. Little Margaret just LOVED him!  Biscuit also seemed to love his grandma. The last photo are of the t-shirts Steve and I found at Old Navy for the 4th of July (apparently, their classic 4th of July t-shirts sell out by mid-June every year. Who knew??)