Sunday, April 26, 2026

Arizona Trip part 2

I left off at Sunday afternoon in last week's blog. Below is photo of Kat, Jesse and their two dogs - little Tucker and big Lucille. After they came for supper, we went over to their house to meet the dogs. Tucker is extremely friendly. Lucille was a bit wary of us at first until we gave her a doggie treat and tossed a tennis ball for her to fetch.  Also, a photo of the puzzle Juli and I worked on Sunday afternoon and evening....



Monday morning, we picked up a rental car (remember Juli's car needed a catalytic converter) and then drove down to Phoenix. We had lunch with cousin Neil Fraedrich and his wife, Gloria in Surprise, we picked up flowers at a nearby Aldi and took some to our visit with cousin Kaye Winfield at her care facility in Glendale, and then we drove up to Anthem (we drove by the house we lived in while on our mission) to see Jim and Joan and take them flowers, too.  Afterwards, we drove to Amy's in Mesa and had a Bowden family gathering (well, not ALL the Bowdens were present) Great visits all!





left to right:  Cory Ellsworth, Rob and Jo Ann Bowden, me, Amy Ellsworth, Juli Davies, Susette Bowden (Brent left early to catch one of his son's ball games)







Tuesday morning, Amy, Juli and I attended the Mesa temple. The saguaro are beginning to bloom and were so pretty, and then Juli took me to the airport and I flew back home. 


Again, my TSA experience without a driver's license went very smoothly. They could actually access my new passport on their computer, which greased the wheels quite a bit, and, of course, on my desk when I got home was my new passport and my replacement driver's license! I was able to finish Fly Me To The Moon (cute movie) on my flight home and I also watched Forrest Gump (which I hadn't seen in years). I finished it as the plane was taxiing on the Lambert runway! The plane landed at about 10:00 pm and the rest of the week has been wall-to-wall. Talk about "hit the ground running"!

Wednesday was unpacking, sorting through mail and other family business that had collected on my desk. I had one music lesson to teach and, that evening, we attended a volunteer recognition dinner for Archway Refugee Connections. It was very nice. When we got home, we found that Sally had pulled off a plate of choco-snap cookies from the kitchen table and had nibbled on several - we were not sure how many exactly - and she had scattered cookies throughout several rooms in the house! So we cleaned up the cookie mess and then out came the hydrogen peroxide to make her vomit. We cornered her in Steve's bathroom so we didn't have too large an area to clean of puke and she seemed fine afterwards. Oh, Sally....

Here is a photo of her the day after, fit as a fiddle and playing watchdog from our living room window!


Thursday, morning we did grocery shopping. In the afternoon, I had an EKG stress test. The doctors have yet to read the results to make a care plan but, happily, the initial report shows no blockages. Stay tuned for the results next week...That night, Steve and I took both cars to drive folks to English class.

Friday morning we had the temple. Then we dashed home for the piano tuner who was scheduled for 1:00. He arrived ten minutes early, which was good since Steve and I both needed to leave the house at 2:00 to take care of many errands - each of us in a separate car. Well, he kept getting phone calls as he worked and he didn't leave until 2:30!!!! THAT was stressful!  In the evening, Steve and I watched two episodes of Star Trek Discovery - the only relaxing part of the entire week because Saturday morning, I had a Grand Market day (three hours) and Lucy came over in the afternoon to spend some water coloring time with me (OK, that was also a relaxing time). She painted a beautiful silver fox.





We treated her to frozen custard at Ted Drewes on the way back to her house. Then, we topped the tank at Costco, ran into Aldi for something we missed on our Thursday shopping day, and, when we got home, I mowed the back yard which had become a jungle during my time in Arizona. The night ended with me cutting Steve's hair. Boy, I was completely worn out when I climbed into bed.

One very bright spot in my week is that I finished book 8 of The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion! SO delightful. I can hardly wait for book 9 to be released and I have been speculating on what will happen ever since finishing. 

The upcoming week looks to be much less crazy....





 

Sunday, April 19, 2026

Arizona trip

The week started with a birthday celebration for Lucy last Sunday evening. She is now fifteen years old and a beautiful young woman. Steve and I gave her a violin bow. A few months ago, she observed my violin bow (a relatively inexpensive carbon fiber one I had purchased from Amazon to replace the silly purple fiberglass bow we bought for Kirsti when she was using the violin) and loved the weight and feel of it compared to her own bow and I decided then and there to get her the same one for her birthday. I think she was pleased. I am happy she continues to play violin as a freshman in the school orchestra. Noah is playing stand-up bass in his orchestra and Quinn still plays cello in his middle school ensemble. Larkin informed me that she is choosing viola for her instrument next year. YAY!

Monday morning, Steve and I drove to the bank to get my birth certificate and social security card out of our safety deposit box. We then took those documents to the License Office for me to get a copy of my lost driver's license. I took my number - 78 - and we sat down where I looked up to the number they were currently on....38!!!!! We were in that office for an hour and a half!!! Happily, I had my Emma M. Lion book on my 30 day free trial Kindle. Poor Steve was not so fortunate. But, I left with a photocopy of my current license. I also went to the TSA website and purchased my $45 TSAConfirmID. 

Monday afternoon, I had my cardiologist appointment. I was somewhat nervous about meeting him as he has a middle eastern last name. Over the years, my experiences with many doctors from that region have not been great - poor bedside manner, hard to understand, not very respectful of women, somewhat dismissive - but this fellow was terrific. His family is from Pakistan but he was raised in the U.S. and is as westernized as they come. He was very informative about my condition and the first step is a stress EKG test. He said that almost all of my PVC's originated in the same part of the heart and, if medication could not control it, they would need to do an ablation. But, as I type this, I have been on the medication for five days and I have not felt the palpations hardly at all! My stress test is this coming Thursday afternoon.

Tuesday and Wednesday were just the usual days - chores, lessons, orchestra. Steve took me to the airport early Wednesday evening for my 8:45 pm flight to Phoenix. I was nervous, not knowing what to expect with TSA. I needn't have been. The terminal was practically empty - no lines anywhere! I walked right up to the TSA counter and was directed to a separate desk for people "like me" (without a form of ID or a real ID). The woman was very kind and efficient. She asked me a few questions like "from where was my first social security card issued". I had to think for a moment because nowadays, our children get their social security number as babies but I didn't get mine until I had my first job so the answer, which in today's world, would have been Texas, was California. She asked me the year, make and model of a recent car I owned. I NEVER can remember the year of our Kia but, thankfully, I remembered that the Honda Element is a 2003 so that satisfied her.  Overall, it was a very painless experience. And, there were no lines to go through the x-ray machines so I found myself with tons of time to await my flight. I ate my sack dinner and happily read my Emma M. Lion book. I flew on Southwest but did not opt to pay for my seat so I was prepared for a middle seat in the farthest back of the plane when I checked in Tuesday night during orchestra rehearsal. I was assigned 3E!!! Middle seat, yes but on the third row of the plane! $85 seats! My guess is that the seat was never sold and they just plugged me in since the flight was completely full. As it was a night flight, being in the middle was not a problem for me (who loves to have a window seat to look out). I started watching a movie - Fly Me To The Moon - which was very enjoyable - but the WiFi pooped out about 3/4 into the movie so I just read my Kindle instead. I hope I can finish the movie on the flight back home!  

Amy and I took a walk along a nearby irrigation canal Thursday morning while we waited for my sister Juli to arrive from Payson. 



Once she did, we left Amy behind (too many grandma duties) and drove up to Cottonwood (about a two hour drive) to meet up with our niece, Jill Vidstrand. Jill is a year older than me. She just recently moved there from her longtime residence of Palmdale, California. She lost her husband, Carl, three years ago, and was finding living in California just too expensive and her house was way too big to take care of so she just up and moved to Arizona. She has a really cute condo and two sweet kitties. The three of us said good bye to the cats and drove via Sedona and Oak Creek Canyon up to Williams to stay the night. We didn't stop in Sedona because we have all been there and it is just so crowded and touristy. Williams, on the other hand, is a cute little town along the historic Route 66 - which is why we chose it. It is the 100 year commemoration of the start of Route 66.  We enjoyed wandering all the little shops paying homage to Route 66...check out the photo of the Mater and Lightning McQueen car mash-up!
We had dinner at a Thai restaurant because all the places that had gluten-free were not open until Friday/Saturday/Sunday.  We stayed in a vintage Rodeway Inn overnight - it had been restored and was quite nice and comfortable. 































Friday morning, after our complimentary breakfast, we headed east to Flagstaff for more Route 66 exploring. The visitor's center is located in the historic train station (that is still the Amtrak station).  















We decided to save our downtown Flagstaff exploration for after lunch and we headed to nearby Walnut Creek National Monument to see the cliff dwelling ruins left by the Sinagua peoples over a thousand years ago. They took advantage of natural occurring rock overhangs on the sides of cliffs and built homes using additional rock and mortar. 
































The trail has 736 steps leading down which, of course, have to be climbed back up! But, we went quite slowly - me especially since I am not accustomed to the higher altitude of Arizona - and took many stops to sit and catch our breaths. Steve and I never made the time to visit while we were on our mission so I am glad I finally go to see it.



We returned to Flagstaff around lunch time and ate at a Culvers (they do not exist in California so Jill had not heard of the chain) and then drove in to downtown Flagstaff. Being on a Friday, it was full of tourists and finding parking was not easy. We finally found a spot, paid for an hour, and then walked around the cute little downtown. By then, we had acquired all the Route 66 souvenirs we needed so we just walked and looked - well, we did visit a chocolate shop and bought there. 
We then headed back down to Cottonwood to drop off Jill. Here she is in front of her condo





































Juli's check engine light went on while in Flagstaff so, after leaving Jill, we drove to an auto parts store to have them diagnose the problem....catalytic converter! No place in Cottonwood could fix it on a Friday afternoon so we said a prayer and headed over the mountain to Payson (about an hour and a half away) and, happily, we made it to Juli's house with no problems. On the drive, we contacted her mechanic to schedule a repair and he couldn't get to it until Thursday. So, after hanging up with him, I booked a rental car for Monday and Tuesday to get us down to the Valley for some more family visits and for my flight back to Missouri on Tuesday afternoon. How did people manage before cell phones?!?!?

We arrived in Payson in the early evening, we ate our Thai leftovers for dinner and we watched The Fighting Preacher on BYU-TV that night. It is a good movie. 

Saturday morning, Juli and I participated in a "Clean-up Payson" event. We donned hats and gloves, brought grabbers and yellow vests and picked up trash for three hours.  Here is Juli on the side of the highway that leads into Payson. Our socks picked up many foxtails and the soles of our shoes collected several goat head stickers that we had to get rid of. And, there were holes in the ground all over the place - I sure hope no snakes lived in them. Happily, I didn't see any!






































We came home to eat lunch and rest up a bit before Juli had yardwork to do in the afternoon. Poor girl had the hardest of the jobs - mowing - while I just snipped off dead iris blooms and held a hose and watered. Juli's yard is covered in California poppies right now - so pretty. And, happily, elk do not eat them! (like almost every thing else in Juli's yard). If you look closely, you can see her behind the mower in the second photo....





































 I did a laundry later on and we watched Zootopia 2 in the evening. 

Today was church and now a quiet afternoon. Jesse and maybe Kat will be coming over for dinner this evening.  It has been a wonderful visit so far. I will write about my last two days in Arizona next week.

Sunday, April 12, 2026

Post Easter happenings

Here is the family at our Easter dinner last Sunday...


We dined on the usual Easter fare -  ham, potatoes supreme, asparagus or carrots (or a delicious artichoke au gratin - all veggies provided by Beckie), fresh pineapple and strawberry shortcake for dessert.

Monday was full of new things: a soundbar for our television (old one died. Thanks, Amazon), a better door handle/lock for our sliding glass door (old one died. Thanks, locksmith), and the promise of a new living room window. Home Depot came to get an accurate measurement. We won't have it installed for probably six to eight weeks, though. Here is what the window looks like now:



Tuesday I made $13.10 from four large bags of aluminum cans collected over the past five months. Woot!!! Orchestra was in the evening and, during the day, Steve and I splurged and went to a movie at a theater! We saw Project Hail Mary...I had read the book, Steve hadn't... and we both thoroughly enjoyed it. We bought the large refillable popcorn/beverage combo and that was our lunch! 😁 Good thing we don't do THAT very often! Another Tuesday accomplishment was that I applied for my passport renewal. Pricey!

Wednesday, the big event was a dentist appointment for both Steve and me in the afternoon. It was a routine cleaning but Steve also needed to discuss his bridge and crown that had failed. He will get another partial to take their place. More pricey.  We enjoyed another episode of Star Trek- Discovery in the evening. Sally has been having doggie diarrhea again. Booo! Happily, we still have a few cans of the special prescription dogfood from Open Door to feed her.

Thursday morning, I mowed the back lawn and, in the afternoon there was another appointment - this time at Costco for my eye exam. 

Friday morning we attended the temple and, in the evening, it was dress rehearsal for the Civic Orchestra with the concert on Saturday night. The performance went really well, I think.  Here's the cello section, minus Nancy who was on the right of the photo, although you can see her cello.  First stand is Emma and Jennifer, second stand is Jayne and me, third stand is Naomi and Kevin.  



Speaking of concerts, I was not able to attend Larkin's strings concert mid-week but Emily sent me a photo of her. Isn't she adorable? Also, a picture of all four Southerland kids with their elementary orchestra teacher (Westridge Elementary)



Saturday morning, Steve and I got in a little bike ride around the neighborhood. At noon, we went to our friend's, the Bells, for dinner. Then, right before the concert, disaster struck. I was loading the little black purse I take for concerts (small enough to keep at my seat but large enough to hold keys and a driver's license) and I couldn't find my license!!!! The last time I had it in my hand was Thursday at Costco. We have looked high and low with no success. And, I am FLYING TO ARIZONA on Wednesday evening! I will get a temporary one tomorrow but getting through TSA is going to be a pain (and also pricey). I've done the research. Ugh! What will sweeten the ordeal is that I am in the middle of reading The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion. I am almost finished with book five.  Next Sunday I will be in Arizona. Yay!








 

Sunday, April 5, 2026

Easter 2026

Well, this past week just zoomed by! The daffodils are done but the wild violets are in bloom as are the redbud. 



 



















Yardwork has begun - Steve mowed and I have started weeding and flower bed overhauls throughout the week. We observed Maundy Thursday by watching two Lamb of God videos - one featuring the music of Kurt Bester that was released about twenty years ago and the other was the movie version of the Rob Gardner production released in 2021. We attended a Good Friday event at the stake center Friday evening. And, this weekend has been General Conference. During yesterday's sessions, to keep myself awake and focused, I assembled Days for Girls shields to get them ready for sewing. Today I am going to make nifty knitter hats. Emily and family and Beckie are coming over this evening for Easter dinner. 

Steve and I watched A Dog's Journey last night. We wept several times! Such a sweet movie. 

Oh, the Holter monitor results came back and I now have an appointment with a cardiologist a week from tomorrow. I had LOTS of PVC's which is why, I guess, the nurse practitioner ordered the consult. Stay tuned...